beacuse I put the led in attiny44 pin 6, accroding to 42bots.com's tutorial, the most simple way to blink the lcd is modify the arduino sample code:"blink", change the pinMode / digitalWrite to pin7.
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Fail scenarios: When configure Arduino as ISP, error message shows 'stk500_rect()' error
during configure arduino as ISP, I follow this tutorial.
in the beginning, I connect all the wire and 10uF Capacitor and ArduinoISP upload fail, nomater re-install the virtual com port drivers, switch to OSX env, even use sample code to blink the arduino led.
after discussed with others, I found that during upload the sketch to the board, need to remove all the wire to other board.
the problem solve when disconnect the arduino and my pcb board.